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Therapists working with Eating Disorders often spend session
time discussing food and the management of food in the client's
life. PICT regards food as a symptom and PICT therapists use
specific techniques to utilise the unconscious mind and discover
the root cause of the symptom/eating disorder. (Obviously,
if a client comes for therapy and their health is in a seriously
deteriorated state, medical intervention will be recommended
and therapy will not begin until the client is stable.) Using
the specific technique, the unconscious mind will present
a time in the past (most often a childhood experience that
is out of conscious memory) when the feelings that run the
eating disorder behaviour started, but NOT when the eating
disorder started.
From that point forward, therapeutic work will be focused
on resolution of the childhood experience. For some clients
there will be more than one past experience that is connected
to the eating disorder behaviour, in those instances, further
exploration through the unconscious and further resolution
work will be done.
Commonly, clients experiencing an eating disorder will have
been children who were given little choice - their parents
were either very domineering giving the child little or no
space to breathe and be natural or very weak and the child
had to take responsibility for self and perhaps siblings as
well. In both cases the child had no power, no sense of self.
When that powerless reality has been established it becomes
a part of the person's belief system and consequently, how
the person relates to the world. Eating disorders is one type
of symptom that reflects feelings of a lack of power or sense
of self in life, and people can end up taking power over the
only thing they have left - their body. Clients will not usually
have conscious knowledge of any of this, but as information
about the kinds of childhood experiences that underpin eating
disorders is explained by a PICT therapist, clients will often
have an 'Aha!' moment - a moment when their life experiences
start to fit together.
Because of the lack of appropriate information, comfort,
love and support during childhood many people use food in
adult life as a comfort. Obesity and Bulimia are two conditions
that can reflect this, whereas, Anorexia can sometimes reflect
a cutting off of comfort because the person feels undeserving.
Some clients (often those who have had other types of therapy)
may want to spend time talking about and focusing on food,
rather than dealing with issues from childhood. A PICT therapist
will explain that s/he is prepared to assist them to resolve
the feelings that run the behaviour and will also acknowledge
that looking at those feelings may seem scary. Clients are
assured that it will not be as difficult as they may fear
and that addressing and resolving those old feelings will
allow the client to have real power in their life, not just
the illusion of power that the eating disorder has provided.
Resolving the root cause of eating disorders allows the person
to automatically return to a natural state, the state where
food takes its appropriate role in their life. Once resolution
takes place there is no need to repeat mantras or positive
statements, no need to 'do' anything except enjoy feeling
and being natural again. Obviously, it is in anyone's best
interest to choose a healthy food life style - with unconscious
negative material out of the way healthy choices are much
easier to make.
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