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PICT is an ideal therapeutic model for clients who have
experienced SRA for the very same reasons that it works so
well for abuse in general; namely that PICT is compassionate
with little need of uncomfortable disclosure unless the client
wishes to do so. However, there are additional dynamics and
complicating features with SRA, which must be considered to
bring about a successful resolution. In the same way as a
counsellor lacking specialist knowledge about Childhood Sexual
Abuse (CSA) can cause harm to their clients, (See 'Adults
Abused As Children ~ Experiences of Counselling & Psychotherapy'
by Peter Dale, Sage Publishers, 1999 ~ for many examples)
a lack of knowledge about SRA may do the same. PICT therapists
are given sources of knowledge that are required for work
with such clients.
One thing to remember, people who have survived ritual abuse
will have great stamina and strength. The fact that they have
come forward for help testifies to that because most have
been programmed to never tell what they know and, in some
cases, instructed by subliminal suggestions to kill themselves
if they do tell. As a child they will have been drugged and
hypnotised and so the 'facts' they recall may sound, and actually
be, impossible, more like hallucinations. That is exactly
why hallucinatory drugs and hypnosis were used in the first
place - to make the stories sound so unbelievable they would
be discounted as having been purely manufactured. There will
be things described that are not actual facts and there will
be actual facts that are too bizarre to be believed. A PICT
therapist will take everything as if it were true because
it is the client's truth and that truth is what needs resolution.
The client may also be confused about what is true and what
isn't, it is explained that those feelings are normal and
that the PICT therapist will work with the information 'as
if' it were true, accepting that some distortions will be
there as a result of the drugs/hypnosis.
There are PICT techniques used to quickly bring clients back
to the here and now during times when clients may access a
severe traumatic experience and associate into it (re-experience
it as though it were happening now). This technique is also
taught to clients so they can use it should flashbacks happen
out of session time.
A longer period of overall therapy time will be needed with
these clients because of the volume of material they will
be working with and because of the extreme trauma they will
have experienced.
It may surprise some people, but it is unlikely that all
individuals will be aware that they are victims of SRA. Like
all victims of abuse, they will have normalised their experiences
to survive but, during work with them, a number of indicators
may start to be disclosed that should lead the therapist to
consider this possibility. As with most clients, they are
likely to present with their 'here and now' problems. They
may be aware that they have been abused, even sexually abused,
but are unlikely to be consciously aware of the serious extent
or degree.
It is likely that people with these experiences will be very
strong individuals, most will have become lifelong silent
prisoners, or are wholly self sabotaging - of course, some
will have committed suicide. Any or all of this is the intentional
strategy of the perpetrator/s, so anyone who makes it to engage
as a client is already a very resourceful survivor, they are
likely to have normalised their experiences and will have
developed many other ingenious coping strategies.
The following list of indicators is not exhaustive by any
means. Many of the indicators are also true for victims of
any kind of abuse, or no abuse at all. A PICT therapist will
be looking for a larger than normal number of them coupled
with extreme examples; and an emotional connection that is
different to the interest or excitement that some find in
these topics. It is also the case that often there will be
a theme to the events being recounted, themes could be religious,
involve rituals, could be to do with death, pornography, specific
groups/clubs, torture or mutilation etc. The following list
of indicators is based on information from: 'Breaking the
Circle of Satanic Ritual Abuse' by Daniel Ryder:
- Dreams with reoccurring images of blood, body parts,
killing and torture; involving animals and/or children.
Also robed figures, demons, satan, animal skulls, candles
and fire etc
- Vague or almost nonexistent childhood memories
- Powerful abreactions to violence and/or instruments of
violence whether real or fictional
- Dangerous, even life threatening, self harming
- Being extremely quiet, passive or self effacing
- Being very uncomfortable when at the centre of attention
or when being photographed
- A dislike of any situations involving human circles or
ceremonies
- Unusual sexual likes, dislikes and fantasies often involving
ritual, pain and torture
- Extreme fear or panic reactions and startle reactions
to sudden or loud noises, certain sounds, unexpected touch
or to seeing certain items. These are frequently very ordinary:
dolls, rings, watches and clocks, certain colours such as
black, red or pink. One client became fearful at the sound
of others talking just out of earshot
- Fearful and or exaggerated reactions to certain smells
such as blood, urine, faeces, incense, burning flesh and
hair
- Extreme hypervigilance
- Extreme co-dependency issues, a whole section is devoted
to this in the book mentioned above
- Fascination with or extreme fear of the occult, witchcraft,
the macabre, gothic culture etc
- Fascination or fear of certain signs and symbols, scars
and marks
- Unusual marks and scars, missing fingers or toes
- Many phobic reactions; sometimes to very ordinary everyday
experiences such as being hungry, thirsty, hot, cold and
wanting to go to the toilet and also including fears of
counsellors or a dread of disclosing
- Sleep disorders ~ night terrors
- High tolerance of pain
- Chronic pain
- Psychosomatic disorders
- An ability to describe horrific experiences or incidents
in a very straightforward and even casual way
- Outrageous and hard to believe memories and accounts of
incidents; even memories of events which are impossible
- Difficulty in accepting very simple and obvious logical
concepts and truths which run contrary to the information
programmed into them during the abuse. This can be quite
startling when it occurs. For example, one female SRA victim
ran her own very successful business. She was well educated
and intelligent, but as a child victim she had been shown
a photograph of herself with red eyes. She had been told
that it meant that she was possessed by the devil. She knew
all about the 'red eye' phenomena in flash photography;
but she insisted on believing the programming she had been
told as a child. It took many hours of work before she would
accept that she had been deceived. The effect on her was
very similar to the hypnotist's trick of causing someone
to forget a number, say 7. The person would then count to
ten and miss out 7; or not recognise the number if written
in a sequence.
- Memory flooding. As fast as one does the work, more traumatic
memories can continue to surface and instead of almost automatically
resolving, as with most CSA clients, they are usually highly
charged, traumatic and disorientating. They often have unusual
characteristics such as strange visual content or involving
taste and smell, cold or heat, thirst and hunger or to do
with passing or not being allowed to pass urine and faeces.
Just the process of continually recovering these memories
is traumatising.
- Clients with Dissociative Identity Disorder
- Stuck clients, or clients that just don't seem to get
it or clients that appeared to make good progress and then
slide back.
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