| PICT is a powerful and versatile visualisation-based therapy
model. It is an evolving form of cognitive therapy with a foundation
in Transactional Analysis that incorporates Neuro-Linguistic
Programming (NLP) to aid rapid positive change. Although PICT
was originally created to specifically help people recover from
the trauma and damage of sexual, physical and emotional abuse
during childhood (such harm may have been caused deliberately,
caused by neglect, or by inadequate parenting which was not
intentional), PICT is equally effective for a wide range of
emotional problems. Such as: eating disorders, OCD, DID, self
harm, ritual abuse, anxiety or depression, Post Traumatic Stress
Disorder, phobias, working with abusers, grief and loss issues
(including murder, suicide, abortion, miscarriage, still birth,
loss of job, material things or pets). PICT therapists also
have the skills to assist with Critical Incident Debriefing
(witnessing/experiencing highly traumatic events).
PICT, although a 'talking' therapy, is a directional model
following a flexible structure always adapted to the client's
individual needs. PICT is designed to assist people who have
completed the 'unloading' process (the initial talking through
of past events) to move into the process of change work. PICT
therapists can either facilitate the 'unloading' process and
then move on to change work or accept clients who have already
completed the 'unloading' with prior counselling and are now
ready for change work.
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When adults with good reasoning power find they are unable
to resolve ongoing problems they can often be heard to complain
in frustration, 'I know I shouldn't feel (think/do) this,
but I still do!' In other words, their logic is at odds with
their feelings and their feelings seem to be winning the battle.
This is usually a depressing experience for people who want
to be in charge of their life and they often blame themselves,
feel guilty and call themselves 'weak' or 'useless'. So, why
are people with good reasoning power trapped in an unwanted
feeling or behaviour?
PICT teaches that the core beliefs we have about ourselves
(our identity), about others or about the world are learned
during early childhood, before we are old enough to determine
if the information is correct or not. Because this process
happens so early on, the information/beliefs we have learned
seem more like a basic truth that has always been with us.
In other words, it is difficult for a client to think in terms
of 'belief', it seems much bigger than that - it seems like
a truth about identity, i.e. 'That's just how I am', 'That's
just how life is'.
That belief learning process is fine if we have emotionally
healthy families who demonstrate good parenting, because then
most of our beliefs about self, others or the world will be
positive and supportive. However, when families are dysfunctional
or parenting skills are lacking, the beliefs we learn are
mistaken and limiting, i.e. I'm not good enough, I can't get
anything right, No one can be trusted, There is no safety,
etc. Mistaken beliefs learned during childhood remain
active in the background, essentially invisible to us, as
they rule our decision making, influence our self esteem,
effect our relationships and our ability to motivate ourselves.
Because the beliefs are 'invisible' to our logic we feel confused
and frustrated when we 'know we shouldn't feel (think/do)
something, but we still do.'
PICT works on the premise that the 'inner child' (that one
part of our unconscious where the memories & beliefs of the younger
self reside) who holds the original beliefs can be communicated
with and the limiting beliefs can be changed. One might think
that any mistaken belief would be automatically updated by
new information as a person grows up - sort of like changing
our belief in Father Christmas. However, that does not happen
to those identity beliefs that start so early they are out
of consciousness, nor does it happen to beliefs created from
trauma events. Therefore, PICT uses the 'today' adult conscious mind
to communicate with the inner child from the past.
Transactional Analysis clearly outlines the 'child', 'adult'
and 'parent' aspects of individuals and encourages understanding
(and ultimately choice) of the functioning of those aspects
within self, and with others, to resolve problems. PICT has
simplified and has specifically, flexibly and vastly restructured
this accepted process to enable resolution of ongoing problems,
unwanted behaviours and past traumas.
The PICT model assists clients to access specific information,
through the unconscious mind, to identify the root cause of
ongoing problems and unwanted behaviours. Then, using specific
PICT techniques, the client's 'adult part' (with direction
from the PICT therapist) gives the 'child part' appropriate
information, love and support. All the ingredients needed
to create belief change, and consequently change of perspective
for the 'child part', are embedded within these PICT techniques
- enabling the 'child' and 'adult' part of the client to both
gain positive and matching beliefs about self. Essentially,
the client is guided through the unwanted feelings or behaviours
to the desired emotional freedom. Within this process the
'parent' part is automatically learning new attitudes and
skills to alter negative and destructive self-talk.
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As already stated, some root causes of problems
are tucked away in the unconscious and clients have no idea
why they have the problem and consequently how to get rid
of it. However, even when clients do have conscious knowledge
of root causes, those early experiences are usually surrounded
by a great deal of guilt or shame. Those kinds of feelings
are very uncomfortable and people tend to avoid looking at
them. PICT teaches that, regardless of the events, because
they took place early in childhood there is no guilt or shame
attached to the child.
Children accept blame very easily and are certainly encouraged
by dysfunctional parents to do so. It is very easy for dysfunctional
parents to use their children as objects to project their
own feelings of inadequacy and guilt upon. For the most part,
children's mistakes are innocent behaviours committed as they
are learning the myriad of rules and regulations of life.
Children are reliant upon their parents for information of
how to safely and appropriately function in life and if parents
have not done their job properly children are vulnerable to
experience serious mistakes. Therefore, if parents have failed
in their responsibility then the blame or guilt goes back
to the parents. However, because these issues are seldom discussed
or examined children can grow up with a backlog, or undercurrent,
of guilt and shame that are actually unwarranted.
Working solely through the conscious mind (adult state) or
solely through the unconscious mind (partially child and parent)
seldom creates the balance or harmony between those states
that is needed for full problem resolution. By utilising metaphor
and visualisation for the unconscious mind, and appropriate
information and guidance for the conscious mind, PICT efficiently bridges
the gap and assists clients to painlessly identify and thoroughly
resolve issues attached to blame, guilt and shame.
At the conclusion of PICT therapy clients regularly report
feeling a sense of completion, a new sense of understanding
of how and why they had the problems and a feeling that they
now have all the puzzle parts of their lives put back together
- 'My life now makes sense' is a common statement. These feelings
are brought about by the inner harmony created by bridging
the gap between the conscious and unconscious mind - for if
restricting unresolved material is operating from the unconscious,
there can seldom be a sense of peace and harmony in the conscious
mind. This sense of inner harmony generally prompts clients
to feel they are able to successfully deal with any new challenges
life may bring because they are no longer hindered by problems
or traumas from the past. Both client and therapist end the
therapeutic relationship with a welcome and well deserved
sense of achievement.
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